I know its not the weekend (but Labor Day weekend just finished, so that counts?) . Does anyone have experience with dating an ISTP?. This section ISTP-ENTJ relationship is about how these two personality types come together in a relationship. Pesonally, they scare me, but I hear the compatability is high. I need more information. What do you think?.
They don't let their emotions affect their decisions. They don't take everything too seriously, and can be lazy sometimes. They take time to understand their feelings. In fact, they may suppress their feelings initially.
They may not be able to handle their feelings sometimes, as their feeling perspective is less developed. But once they commit, they are very loyal partners. All the time, they won't tell you how they feel, but their actions will prove their love.
They tend to get uncomfortable if someone barges in their personal space. But if someone tries to change them, they will protest.
They get stressed if pressurized or told to behave in a certain manner. Sexually, the ISTP approaches intimacy as a physical act rather than an expression of love and affection. They are earthy and sensual beings who enthusiastically experience sex with all five senses.
They bring spontaneity, creativity, and enthusiasm into the bedroom, and enjoy new experiences. Since aesthetic beauty has such strong appeal to them, they appreciate the "setting", i. ISTPs love to fix things, and may create problems in their personal relationships, just so that they can have the fun of fixing them.
They have a tendency to hold back their own views on things.
[ISTP] ISTP/ENTJ Relationships: Do They Work?
They like to listen to other people's views, but are generally non-commital about expressing their own opinions. ISTPs have a habit of evading answering questions by asking more questions.
This can be frustrating at times to their mates, if they are after a direct answer. The ISTP's decision making process is entirely internal, so they don't feel much need to share their opinions with others. When they are interacting with others, they are in "information gathering" mode, so they tend to ask questions rather than share views. The ISTP just doesn't feel the need to expose themselves fully to others.
When it comes to intimate relationships, the ISTP has the further motivation of protecting themselves. Most ISTPs are afraid of having to deal with their deeper feelings.
Since their Thinking preference dominates their personality, their Feeling side is their least developed inferior function. Consequently, ISTPs are usually quite vulnerable and perhaps weak when dealing with their feelings. Their habit of keeping part of themselves hidden may also serve the purpose of keeping a protective wall around their hearts. Although the ISTP does not usually have a well-developed Feeling side, they frequently do have intense feelings for people.
They can feel overpowering love for their mates, although they are likely not to express their emotions, or to express them inadequately or inappropriately if they do venture towards expression. However, unlike many of the other personality types, ISTPs feel strong affections one day at a time. Extroverts appreciate the calm and steady demeanor of the Introvert, while Introverts enjoy the hearty and bubbly Extrovert. Extrovert enjoys that there is an active listening ear in the Introvert, always ready to listen to his thoughts and rants.
Introvert enjoys that the Extrovert takes social leadership in most occasions, connecting them to new friends and people that they otherwise would be too shy to approach. Struggles Extroverts, however, may find that the Introvert is too quiet and communicates too little with nothing to share.
ENTJ and ISTP – Compatibility, Relationships, and Friendships
They may feel Introverts are boring, or just disinterested in talking to them. Introverts may find that Extroverts are too loud and talk too much without listening to them. An Introvert may feel neglected and unheard by Extroverts because they will only share if asked - and Extroverts usually don't ask. On the weekends, Extroverts enjoy heading out for social activities or other high stimulation activities to relax while Introverts prefer staying home or at the most have some quiet activity with close friends.
This difference in preference will sometimes lead to dissatisfaction. Sensing-Intuition Joys Sensors enjoys the insightful and brilliant Intuitive and seeing things from a big picture, strategic perspective relative to theirs.
Sensors are also likely fascinated by the outlandish imagination of the Intuitive; with big dreams and visions. Intuitives will appreciate the Sensors attention to detail in everyday living; Sensors bring Intuitives down to earth to common sense. While not true for all Sensors, Sensors dress themselves and groom themselves relatively well; this is something that Intuitives will appreciate and admire.